Oh Rihanna, you had me at Love the Way You Lie.

But you may have lost me at S&M.

Rihanna’s video for her hot new song S&M has just been released and although artistically I love it, I just can’t get past the former victim of domestic violence singing, “Cause I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it. Sex in the air. I don’t care, I love the smell of it. Sticks and stones may break my bones but chains and whips excite me.”

Ya ya I know, there is a difference when it’s consensual…but still..

Watch anyway: