We all deal with relationship splits in such different ways. Take the Jennifer Lopez – Marc Anthony divorce. Marc Anthony has been spotted flirting with fans at his concert while Jennifer Lopez is reportedly “devastated.”

At his first public appearance since the couple announced their breakup Friday, Anthony played at a concert a day later in Bogota, Columbia.

Before performing No Hay Nadie Como Ella, which translates in English to ‘None Like Her,’ he flirted with the crowd, “Rumor has it I’m single now. That’s why I want to dedicate the next song to you.”

J.Lo on the other hand is reportedly devastated over the break up. A source tells Us Magazine that J.Lo is “absolutely beside herself. This is someone she dedicated a long time to, and that she truly loved.”

The source also says of the Anthony-Lopez marriage, “They had a very up and down marriage. They would get into heated, horrible fights. Then, they would also go through times where they were extremely lovely and romantic…It was a roller coaster with them from the beginning.”

We all remember the booty shaking that took place on American Idol finale late May when JLo danced while her husband performed. The two looked like two people in love which is why so many are shocked at their breakup less than two months later. Apparently, that was a high moment in their roller coaster relationship.

Lopez “tried everything she could to make it work,” another source told US Magazine. “They went to marriage counseling. She was patient and loving and did everything he wanted her to…She exhausted all the possibilities.”

Despite the split, J.Lo and Anthony will continue to develop  their reality competition, ¡Q’viva! Reportedly, the duo will also continue honoring their deal with Kohl’s to create and promote two upcoming apparel and accessories lines, albeit they were always intended to be “two separate distinctive collections,” which could mean the two won’t even have to interact with each other.

Here is a news video clip about the split: